Sunday, December 02, 2012
Staying afloat
Later in the week, we were leaving in the morning. It was supposed to be a somewhat warm day, so I hadn't put the kids' coats on them. Of course, as soon as we get to the car, Landon starts freaking out saying he's "chiwwy" and that he needed a jacket. So I suggest to him that he wear the vest, and he completely melted down. I asked him what the problem was, and he said,
"I don't wanna wear a yife pwaserver!"
(That's 'life preserver' for my non-Landon-speaking friends. :))
Hehe. Guess it does kinda make sense...
Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Week 4.5
Sunday, November 18, 2012
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
Week ... ?
Saturday, November 03, 2012
Movin' on up...
Sunday, October 28, 2012
A generous kid, that one...
*Groan.*
(Good thing she's cute! ;))
Saturday, October 27, 2012
Progress!
Monday, October 08, 2012
Funny Boy
"Hi Old House! We miss you! Indeed we do! Enjoy your new people!"
Cutie.
Tuesday, September 04, 2012
Our summer in a nutshell
So...here's what our summer has been pretty much all-consumed with: We sold our house. It was an adventure, to say the least. We have been talking about moving closer to work, family and friends for the past couple of years and finally decided to bite the bullet! Admittedly, I think we dragged our feet as this was our first home. We brought both of our babies home from the hospital to this house. We bought it only two years after we got married, so really, most of our married life had been there. And we just loved the house itself - we always joked that if we could pick the house up and move it, we would've (although we probably would've added a room or two if possible :)).
Anyway, we listed the house at the end of April. The day the listing went live on MLS, we got a call that we had a showing. We got an offer that evening, and after a weekend of negotiating, we had a contract! Whew! That was easy!
Or not.
We should've known from the get-go, really. The buyer/lady-who-was-going-to-live-there (who was around our age) was having her home bought for her by her mother. Hm. That was interesting in and of itself. Not to mention that the buyers had pretty much asked for the moon. By the way, Mimi and Nana, we are still waiting for y'all to offer to buy a house for us (HA!). So we began the househunting and made an offer on a really pretty home and had it accepted. Woohoo! It was all going well...
BUT, long story short, the evening before we were supposed to have the home inspection (which was also about two hours after we had our offer on the other home accepted), we found out that the mom wasn't able to get financing. Apparently she had bought all of her children's homes and although she had a good job, she was stretched to the max. She even tried to get her elderly parents to co-sign for her. No luck. So there went both our contracts.
Back to the drawing board! And back on the market.
Less than a week later, we had another showing and immediate offer. Yessss!
(I'll cut to the chase and let you know that this one fell through, too - buyer financing again. By the way, those "commitment letters" you get from the bank? They don't mean a thing.)
So, there we were, 50 days on the market, 40 of which our house had been under contract. We got another dud offer a couple of weeks after that. We countered and the buyer walked. We got an even MORE offensive offer the next day and we countered back with full price (with us paying a portion of the buyer's closing costs)...and...the buyer accepted! Hooray!
The third time was the charm! We kept househunting, and the house we had initially loved was even back on the market! It was like it was meant to be. Except that it wasn't. It turned out that house had a mold issue. Although it had been remediated, the underlying issue hadn't been fixed, so it was possible that it would return. After having good friends just go through this recently, and having two kiddos with asthma, we decided it just wasn't worth the risk.
When we first started looking for houses, we saw a development near where I grew up where new houses were being built. We kept it in the back of our minds as a "fallback," as we didn't want to have to make two moves, and it is also about the same distance to my job (20-25 minutes). After looking at countless houses, and feeling a little bit like Goldilocks (too big! too little! not enough yard! too much yard!), we ended up back there and signed a contract to build on July 4! Our home should be ready sometime late 2012/early 2013. And although my commute will not improve, John Michael's will drop from over an hour to about 15 minutes.
We decided to stay near our old house and rent an apartment (the rental price for apartments is significantly cheaper here than elsewhere) but had a two-week delay in between the closing date for the sale of our home and when our apartment was available for us. After a two-week stay with my parents (which was a lot of fun!) and putting nearly everything we own into storage, we embarked on our SECOND move within a few weeks. Remember how we didn't want to have to make two moves? HA! There will be three total when all is said and done. :)
So that's that. We have been in our two-bedroom apartment for a little over two weeks now and it is going well so far. It is cozy, of course. We had outgrown our cute little home as it was, and then going down to a smaller two-bedroom apartment has been a challenge. When we moved from the house, we had five storage units holding all of our things and John Michael has gotten us down to two, so to say that we are living in clutter is a bit of an understatement. But it's an adventure!
So what do I miss most about our house?
1) Our dog. He began staying at JM's parents' farm while we were showing the house so we wouldn't have to hurry home to get him packed up for showings, and also to not have to sweep/vacuum/mop twice a day. We decided an apartment with no yard just wouldn't be fair to him. We are kind of going crazy without him. Also, I am prepared for the potential custody battle that may ensue when we try to get him back from Nana and Papa ;)
2) Our travertine kitchen floor. Yes, it is material. But it was something we saved for and we were quite proud of it.
3) Our yard. That needs no explanation.
4) Our recycling bins. After a week of horrible guilt of throwing stuff away, we rescued one from storage, but we aren't able to sort so I am already dreading the trip to the center. Blah!
What am I loving about the apartment?
1) The kids are definitely growing closer. They are doing GREAT sharing a room and although they are somewhat forced to play together since there isn't really space for them to "escape," they are loving it. I anticipate that they will have some problems going back to their own rooms when we move into our new home.
2) Paper plates. Yeah, I said it. Disregard #4 above and pretend I am not being hypocritical. We decided to not pack/unpack/repack/unpack our dishes, so we are using paper plates and plastic cups. I love this when it comes time do to the dishes in our very small kitchen.
3) It's cozy. We have gotten a crazy amount of family time (again, there's nowhere to "escape"!) and I love it.
4) (Can't think of a fourth right now but I'm sure there's something :))
So that is that! Updates on the new house to follow as progress starts being made...
Our first home:
Friday, August 17, 2012
First Day of First Grade
Getting her registered was quite interesting as we had to wait until the sale of our old house went through in order for the contract on our new home to no longer be contingent. At that point, we were one week from the start of school. There was a lot of running around and getting paperwork signed, as her old principal had to sign that he understood that she was not attending anymore, and her new principal (and the Director of the School Board) had to approve her attending "out of zone" since we are not yet living within the school zone. (This was also why we had to make an interim move to my parents' house - we had to wait on an apartment that was within our County, or else we would've had to pay tuition.) Phew! Luckily it all worked out and her new principal called me in time to invite us to their "Back to School Bash" the week before school started. That really got us all excited! :)
Little Miss Social Butterfly wasn't the slight bit apprehensive (although she was very sad to not be going to her former preschool for before- and after-school care anymore). I was thrilled for her to be going to her new school because I actually went there as a child. She is less than impressed by that - ha!
Anyway, she had a great first day and has a teacher who seems absolutely amazing. I know she'll excel just as she did in Kindergarten.
Oh - the biggest news of First Grade? She wants to go by "Addison" instead of "Addie." *Tear.*
Thursday, May 10, 2012
Six Years Old
Addie,
You have such a sweet, loving, caring heart and you make us so proud. You definitely have your moments (ha!) where you are hard-headed and somewhat defiant, but even those are qualities that I know will serve you well as you grow up. You are so smart and have become such a good reader. You are excelling in school already and I know you will continue to.
You love playing babies (your favorite is "Emma," although you remind me that you are only her big sister and I am still her mommy), princesses, and you are an amazing artist! You also love to write letters and cards to your loved ones. So sweet.
You are still a little peanut (5-10% for both height and weight, and size 8 (toddler) shoes!) and are quite a bit smaller than your classmates. But that doesn't stop you from keeping up with everyone with your big personality! You have lost two bottom teeth so far. You are quite proud of this and ask me to check every evening to see if you have any other loose teeth (you don't :)).
Addie, we are so proud to call you our little girl. The past six years have been SO much fun. We are excited to see what the next six bring!
I love you,
Mommy
Sunday, April 15, 2012
Captain(s) Planet!
Thursday, April 05, 2012
Our little schoolgirl
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
My favorite "yittle" guy
Tuesday, March 06, 2012
Thursday, February 23, 2012
Tagged!
- I am currently growing my hair to donate it. I have talked about it a few times in the past, and when my dear hairdresser moved her office from half-a-block away from my office to a 30-minute drive, I got a little behind in haircuts - what better time to embrace my goal, right? It's going to work even better now that she's stopped cutting hair to go back to college. (Insert big sad face here because I will miss her, but also a happy face because I'm obviously excited about both my potential hair donation and her following her dreams.)
- I buy cards and forget to send them (or even give them to people when mailing is not involved). I do this A LOT. Kim can attest to this. :) I am currently in possession of three Christmas gifts that need to be mailed and at least four cards that I have recently bought and not sent. *Sigh.* Oh wait, these are supposed to be FUN facts, not EMBARRASSING facts... ;)
- I dislike driving. I've never been one of those "get in the car and just drive" people. I will always take the interstate if it's a possibility to get somewhere faster!
- I love ridiculously silly movies. My favorites are Dead Man On Campus and Super Troopers. I think maybe it's because I think so hard at work that I don't want to have to think when I watch movies?! We'll go with that explanation, although the truth is I have always preferred silly movies over other genres.
- I have always been a good speller and worked as an editorial assistant for legal newsletters straight out of college. That's actually how I got the urge to go to law school. I love that it seems like Addie is going to be a good speller, too! Here's to many spelling bees in our future ;)
- I currently have over 20,000 unread messages in my gmail account. I've even set up an account only for lists, but of course I still get most everything on my main account. Rather than delete the junk messages right away, I just scroll past them. Eh, I'll get to it one day. At least my work inbox is up to speed!
- I love, love, LOVE working for a governmental agency. I admit that I used to buy in to some of the stereotypes about government employees, but I have never seen such dedicated and hard-working individuals! Also, if you ever think your local government is working slowly, thank your state legislature for the laws that make that necessary ;) (HA!) And be sure to keep any anti-government or lazy government worker rants away from me because I tend to become a little mama bear about it. :)
- I got a bike for Christmas and when I first got on it, I couldn't remember how to ride! So it is NOT true that you never forget. Okay, okay, so I was fine within about ten seconds, but that was still a scary ten seconds...
- I feel like I'm cheating on my kids when I eat at Chick-Fil-A without them. But man, I love that place. Funny since I went about ten years without eating it after getting MORE than my fill while it was at the Presidential Courtyard at UT. I still can't eat the chicken sandwiches...
- I enjoy traveling but I panic beforehand. I think it is a control issue. There are so many variables you can't control when you travel. Eek! My blood pressure is rising as I think about it. Ha!
- When I began college, I wanted to be an orthodontist. I know, it makes me laugh, too. One semester of advanced calculus and honors chemistry was enough to cure me of that. Also, the 8 a.m. tennis class wasn't a good idea, either ;)
- Where would you go if you had an all-expenses paid trip somewhere? Hmm...probably somewhere tropical. Tahiti, perhaps? That would be if it were 100% my decision. I think John Michael would want to go to Australia, and that'd be fine with me, too!
- What do you remember about kindergarten? I had an amazing teacher, Mr. Morgan. I remember our Christmas gifts because we all got teddy bears and coloring books and those stackable crayons. So cool! I also remember our Easter egg hunt and playing on the playground, which had tractor tires on it. So cool. Jessica, I'm not sure if you heard me say, but I went to the same school that Kate may go to!
- Where did you and your spouse go on your first date? For our first "non-date-date," we went with some friends to a park and played on the swings and then back to John Michael's parents' house to watch movies (remember, this was my sophomore year of high school and his senior year). I say "non-date" because he had a girlfriend at the time who had gone off to college! I had a serious crush on him and I'm not exactly sure how it happened, but our little group of friends decided we were going to blow off the Homecoming dance and hang out. So we did. We went on our first official date about five or six weeks later :) We saw the movie Ghosts and the Darkness. Terrible, terrible movie. Even worse first date movie! I joke to him that I must've already really loved him to go out with him again after that!
- It's 10:30 pm on a weeknight. What are you doing? Ideally, asleep! Lately, playing on the computer and watching tv or a movie :)
- What did your senior prom dress look like? Ooh, it was pretty. A pretty blue (lapis blue, I believe it was called) silk chiffon flowy dress. I think I've got a picture on the blog somewhere, actually! I liked my junior year dress better, but this one was a keeper, too :)
- If you could instantly be fluent in one language, what would it be? Spanish, no doubt.
- What is the proudest moment of your life? I have many proud moments in my life (not the least of which are my kiddos' birthdays) but my proudest has to be the day I learned that I had passed the bar exam on my first try (after taking it while I had a three-year-old and four-month-old). Yep. I was pretty proud.
- Are there any words people say you pronounce funny? I have a hard time saying the words "rural" and "drawer." I will do most everything I can to avoid saying them (i.e., replacing them with phrases such as "not urban" and "dresser thingy" or "desk thingy" - ha!).
- What do people need to know about you to "really" know you? I have been known to let people take advantage of me or "run over" me, but I do NOT accept that for my friends and family. As I said earlier about my co-workers, I can get a little "mama bear" when someone messes with my loved ones :)
- What was your favorite class in college? Not 8 a.m. tennis. Seriously though, I took a criminology class that was absolutely fascinating. And creepy.
- You're craving something salty. What do you grab? CHEESE!
Friday, January 06, 2012
Trees of Christmas 2011
I had wanted to have this ritual be a “Nana-Addie” thing but I could NOT exclude my precious grandson, Landon. Therefore PaPa also came to enjoy the day.
There were too many things going on in December so we couldn’t go see Trees of Christmas at Cheekwood until after school was out for Christmas. Of course the usual bribery was if they were good, then they could go to Phillips Toy Mart. They were great – there isn’t too much to the Trees as it was when our boys were young. Only florists and designers do the trees in the mansion now so there are just 6 or 7 trees to see. We blew through those pretty quickly. We did visit the Train exhibit again which they enjoyed. Lunch in the Pineapple Room was fairly uneventful. They wanted to play games on Nana’s phone, but Nana’s phone is in the dark ages and doesn’t have games. They were good.
As they were “angelic”, they of course were taken to Phillips Toy Mart. Mike (since around 1956 when Phillips was on 8th Avenue) and our boys have been going to Phillips since they were little boys, so it is a tradition in our family. The deal was to get one small thing as a reward for being good. We circle the store many times. Addie dusting her fingers along most everything in the store. Landon wants everything he picks up. Addie finally decides on a “Play” mop. Landon picks out a ball. When we get in the looooong line to pay, somehow Landon shows up with 2 things. I tell him he can only have one thing. “Noooooo.” I said, “You have to choose one thing.” He says “I choose not to”. Sounds like a lawyer?:) Then Addie starts in – why does he get 2 things and I only get one? Well, if you have ever been to Phillips – once you are in line you better be ready to check out. Risking a total meltdown of not only one but 2 grandchildren – we hurriedly get Addie another item to be able to GET.OUT.OF.THERE! Hey, we’re Grandparents, we don’t have to worry about spoiling them. That’s what we’re there for!
We come home for a fun afternoon and spending the night. We have 2 inches of water on the floor for most of the day. Addie’s mop didn’t come with a wringer. Later Landon is scribbling on paper and brings it to me to read. I make up some crazy word that it says and he’s thrilled. Addie gets the drift and starts doing the same thing. After a point, she actually starts writing things for me to read. One of her pages she brings in says “Landon is a brat”. I express my displeasure that she is calling him that but also remind her that she should be writing the same thing about herself too. She goes into the other room, writes her sentence for me to read. She comes back and it says, “Addie is a Princess”. Too funny! They keep us in stitches, on our toes and we love every second of it! Another day(s) in paradise with our Grandchildren!